tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7953914797454230899.post7029660788715434922..comments2024-03-26T22:52:08.443+00:00Comments on moonroot: D.I.V.O.R.C.E.Moonroothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02034336153685658320noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7953914797454230899.post-5554945414027428362009-12-22T22:04:50.071+00:002009-12-22T22:04:50.071+00:00Wow, that was quick! I am happy for you that the l...Wow, that was quick! I am happy for you that the legal process is over, and you seem to be well into the emotional/physical/spiritual process that takes just as long as it takes. For me the deepest grief was letting go of my idea of the "family" I had worked so many years to create. I knew I could find a better partner (and have), but that sense of close-knit bonds, children and grandchildren, all those family traditions...that was the longest and hardest grief. <br /><br />And yet, standing now on the other side I can see so many more possibilities. May the rebirth of your life fill you with joy, hope and laughter, as it has me.anne hillhttp://gnosicafe.com/gcblognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7953914797454230899.post-13595520870531364442009-12-13T19:49:17.637+00:002009-12-13T19:49:17.637+00:00This post made me cry....and Im not sure why. Mayb...This post made me cry....and Im not sure why. Maybe its a sort of kinship I feel for you, I love reading your blog..maybe its the fact that my husband and I have just passed the 20 year mark and when I saw you get blindsided it freaked me out, the thought of spending half my life with someone and possibly not knowing who in the hell they are, really are, on the inside at all. <br />Actually that scares the shit out of me.<br />Anyway...much love and peace to you girl. Your strength moves me.<br />XxooLisa B (Moon)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04450551879881937217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7953914797454230899.post-7074390032812892472009-11-19T00:44:47.847+00:002009-11-19T00:44:47.847+00:00A sad time but a useful one for reflection and lea...A sad time but a useful one for reflection and learning to know yourself better, just give yourself plenty of time to grieve and heal.Blessings.Vonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421069895155350144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7953914797454230899.post-42913534894533021892009-11-04T14:17:18.110+00:002009-11-04T14:17:18.110+00:00Autumn is the season of grief and letting go. My h...Autumn is the season of grief and letting go. My heart goes out to you at this time.<br /><br />Remember that after the healing dark of the winter you will know a new spring, be able to move on. But don't rush the grieving --Maryahttp://africanalchemy.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7953914797454230899.post-28263739001668486582009-11-02T18:12:03.952+00:002009-11-02T18:12:03.952+00:00Several thoughts...how wonderful to have had and c...Several thoughts...how wonderful to have had and continue to have the experience of your parents being happly married...a gift to all...I am sure your words will help and support others as well as being a honest clear heartfelt sharing....yes 23 years is a long time...a wealth of experience I think that is a testament of your parents and you. Much love EZahara Celestialhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17721719785934558456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7953914797454230899.post-76977468842540297292009-10-31T12:47:22.160+00:002009-10-31T12:47:22.160+00:00what better time to throw off the old and look wit...what better time to throw off the old and look with new eyes to what lies ahead.<br />my dad did the same to my mum after 26 years~no one had a clue about this other life of his.<br /><br />look forward my lovely and accept my blessings on this special day {hugs}laoi gaul~williamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13461210264595425112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7953914797454230899.post-47775914683022188182009-10-30T02:26:18.089+00:002009-10-30T02:26:18.089+00:00I know this must be a hard time for you. Divorce i...I know this must be a hard time for you. Divorce is never easy and the amount of years makes it even harder. I was married to my ex for just a little under 25 years when our divorce was final. It has been 11 years now and I am remarried, but the pain still is there (just so you know I left him). Time will ease it for you though. <br />Hugs<br />PattyPattyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05840399136320094652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7953914797454230899.post-41944786460404561352009-10-29T23:59:03.300+00:002009-10-29T23:59:03.300+00:00Oh sweetie...how I feel for you. It's one of t...Oh sweetie...how I feel for you. It's one of those things in life that even though you know that the universe will deliver what you seek, the ending and loses as a price we have to pay can be so painful. Let the pain rise and fall....and one day VERY soon you will be all healed and ready to move forward. Living life with someone who cannot or does not want to 'feel' is no fun. Life experiences good and bad are there to be shared.<br />Know that we (your blogging friends) are here to love and support you every step of the way...Go sister go! Your life has only just begun.<br /><br />Love and brightest blessings,<br />Sue xxxSue Simpsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08600985105373472577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7953914797454230899.post-14315954421468888202009-10-29T20:20:47.694+00:002009-10-29T20:20:47.694+00:00Having been divorced myself my heart goes out to y...Having been divorced myself my heart goes out to you. I hope you find new happiness each & every day & that your new beginning will be a bright & beautiful one. xxSarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06729233060266402303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7953914797454230899.post-39315078567288970462009-10-29T17:47:12.770+00:002009-10-29T17:47:12.770+00:00Well I am sure you have lots of friends and family...Well I am sure you have lots of friends and family to help you along the way. Well done for at least having a possitive take on what after all is a sad chapter.<br />Love<br />LYN<br />xxxLynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03548006686821838698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7953914797454230899.post-81120440914394325952009-10-29T10:34:34.445+00:002009-10-29T10:34:34.445+00:00Blessings to you at this time. It is, as you say, ...Blessings to you at this time. It is, as you say, as we approach Samhain, an appropriate time for endings and, of course, new beginnings. A relative of mine is going through divorce, and from what she tells me, the process itself is the worst thing - she longs for the day it's finally done, though she too acknowledges that day will be painful no matter that the divorce happened for the right reasons, for her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com